And we all know what's done in the dark eventually comes to the light.
So this guy I've been dealing with for sometime now got caught dead in his lie. Have you ever gave someone an open opportunity to be honest with you and they still lie? Well this is what happened to me basically I asked the guy did he mess with any other girls (because he asked if I talked with other guys) and if he did I wouldn't have a problem b/c I wasn't his girlfriend so he was pretty much free to do what he wanted. He swore me down that he wasn't and any time I asked he would shut that idea quickly and assure me that he was only dealing with me. I knew this wasn't the whole truth but I gave him the benefit of the doubt. (yes, go ahead and call me stupid b/c it was). Lately he had been really distant and not speaking to me as much as he used to and I saw some things between him and a girl he dated (that I happened to know) that looked a little suspect. Well today I tired of being left in the dark about things broke it off completely with him and said that I wanted my things back from him and all of that. And just to make sure I wasn't making an ass out of myself I messaged the girl myself and come to find out no they weren't together but they still spent a lot of time together and she just like me had her doubts b/c he was pretty much telling her what he told me. After our conversation she told him to get his stuff from her house. You know what this negro does? BLOCK ME FROM FB! She didn't tell him that I told him but I guess he connected dots or probably looked into her FB account. But anyway how is it that he's mad at me and he is the one that hurt and betrayed me. He can block, delete, erase me all he wants but it still doesn't change the fact that he is the one who has done wrong and he was caught! I'm glad I went about this in a mature way and finally asked what I needed to ask because if not I still would have been in the dark and being strung along! I've never been in a situation like this before but wow it is a lesson learned definitely. I pray for people like him though and their souls. I'm not perfect but I wouldn't do something that I knew in the end could ultimately hurt someone.
So this guy I've been dealing with for sometime now got caught dead in his lie. Have you ever gave someone an open opportunity to be honest with you and they still lie? Well this is what happened to me basically I asked the guy did he mess with any other girls (because he asked if I talked with other guys) and if he did I wouldn't have a problem b/c I wasn't his girlfriend so he was pretty much free to do what he wanted. He swore me down that he wasn't and any time I asked he would shut that idea quickly and assure me that he was only dealing with me. I knew this wasn't the whole truth but I gave him the benefit of the doubt. (yes, go ahead and call me stupid b/c it was). Lately he had been really distant and not speaking to me as much as he used to and I saw some things between him and a girl he dated (that I happened to know) that looked a little suspect. Well today I tired of being left in the dark about things broke it off completely with him and said that I wanted my things back from him and all of that. And just to make sure I wasn't making an ass out of myself I messaged the girl myself and come to find out no they weren't together but they still spent a lot of time together and she just like me had her doubts b/c he was pretty much telling her what he told me. After our conversation she told him to get his stuff from her house. You know what this negro does? BLOCK ME FROM FB! She didn't tell him that I told him but I guess he connected dots or probably looked into her FB account. But anyway how is it that he's mad at me and he is the one that hurt and betrayed me. He can block, delete, erase me all he wants but it still doesn't change the fact that he is the one who has done wrong and he was caught! I'm glad I went about this in a mature way and finally asked what I needed to ask because if not I still would have been in the dark and being strung along! I've never been in a situation like this before but wow it is a lesson learned definitely. I pray for people like him though and their souls. I'm not perfect but I wouldn't do something that I knew in the end could ultimately hurt someone.
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